Torn between the TWO
by lostone
(Maryland, U.S.)
I am a young girl living in the U.S. and getting ready to graduate from college.
There is a guy i've been dating for a year & we are perfect together ONLY problem is he is not ready to settle right now, he is not ready to talk to my family & his family right now bcuz he is not financially stable....he's outta college looking for a stable job.
On the other hand, there is another guy interested & serious about marriage. He wants to talk to my family and get their approval before talking to me first. He is financially ready & mentally ready as well. He is a little bit more religious than the other guy.
The problem is I feel I connect with the 1st guy and part of me feels I should be patient with him and things will eventually work out.
Then on the other hand the 2nd guy is ready & I feel if I let him go is like letting a once in a life time opportunity go....???
Any advise or suggestions will be greatly appreciated!