SO I HAVE BEEN SEEING THE SAME GUY FOR A YEAR AND 5 MONTHS NOW...THINGS ARE OK WITH THE FAMILY. THE ONLY PROBLEM IS GETTING A JOB. IT IS HARD DURING THIS ECONOMY AND THAT IS WHATS HOLDING US BACK FROM GETTING THE FAMILIES TOGETHER.
WE USUALLY SEE EACH OTHER ONCE A WEEK AND GO TO PLACES WHERE THERE ARE PEOPLE TO AVOID TEMPTATION...BUT LAST WEEK HOWEVER WE ENDED UP BEING ALONE & WERE EXTREMELY TEMPTED & ENDED UP DOING WHAT WE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO.
I FEEL EXTREMELY GUILTY AS TO WHAT HAPPNED & IT IS EATING ME ALIVE BEFORE I COULD HAVE STOPPED IT.....I AM IN SOO MUCH PAIN BECAUSE I DISAPPOINTED MYSELF & ALLAH AND WISH FOR THIS FEELING TO GO AWAY.!!!!
ANY SUGGESTIONS ??
May 10, 2010 Rating
Go with Heart or Brain by: Saqib
What is readiness?
It is a relative term.
It is least important whether the second guy is ready and first not. But it is very important whether you are ready or not.
In my opinion you should go with your heart and not your brain. If you marry the second guy, you may think in every marriage trouble that you could live a better life with the first guy because you loved him. However, if you gave a chance to the first guy, the financial issues are not a big challenge.
The best advice may be that you should follow your own readiness.
