I ask myself over and over why marriage isn't bliss throughout. I believe a woman should be actively involved in various projects, this would take her mind off issues (of course seek your husband's permission). Every married/bored woman should have a to-do list, create projects for yourself, make a list, take trips with old friends every once in a while(of course without children and husbands), you will find it very refreshing. Avoid routine, try and figure out ways that best suits you to control something you don't like about him and don't involve him till last minute. In as much as we have responsibilities to our kids, husbands and family, we have a major one towards ourselves, we owe it to ourselves to be happy. They can't be functional if we are not.
Jul 27, 2009 Rating
Sometimes its better to touch your partner by: Marriage Counselors
Sometimes its better to touch your partner during talking and this makes your spouse more friendly and trustworthy. Then you spouse feel free to share everything to you. If you did something wrong then you know the skills how to say sorry to your spouse or partner. This is all depends upon the communication skills and intellect. Certified marriage counselors and relationship saving programs are teaching the same thing in their relationship restoring programs. You can tell to your partner that “I m sorry, I said something wrong to you but from my heart I never want anything wrong will happens to you. There are many different way to say sorry. To learn some more tips you can visit us
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May 25, 2008 Rating
Thank You by: Brother of Darkness
Sister-
Your complaints sound close to the type of complaints my ex-wife used to fabricate about me.
It sounds like you are looking to hurt your husband;thank you for confirming that there is not an honest woman left on the face of this earth.
May 09, 2008 Rating
A Troubled Muslim Marriage by: Admin. Saqib
I am neither a psychologist nor expert on marital affairs. However, I have thought over and over. I admit that I always found myself in a blind alley when I thought of period of your marriage and ages of your children.
But I expect that there is always a better way to do things. Next time, take some time in evening from your husband’s busy schedule and start talking of old good days. How your children used to make small pranks? How you both used to go out? How your green days used to be spent. Ask him and your children to go on a vacation. Even take him to some dentist when you find it easy.
He is a spoiled boy. Take his care and make him realize sensibly that you are doing so.
Another step is to share his worries about his parents, brothers and sisters. He will feel you taking interest in ‘supposedly’ his personal affairs. While discussing his relatives’ problems discuss problems of your daughters too. When he is worried try to give solutions which not only help him to shed his worries but also save your family from worries.
Slowly, without pressing too hard, you may be able to get a life of your liking. I am hopeful especially when I see him taking care of you.
I invite the visitors to float their positive opinions in the light of their personal experiences.
