Sister-
Your complaints sound close to the type of complaints my ex-wife used to fabricate about me.
It sounds like you are looking to hurt your husband;thank you for confirming that there is not an honest woman left on the face of this earth.
May 09, 2008 Rating
A Troubled Muslim Marriage by: Admin. Saqib
I am neither a psychologist nor expert on marital affairs. However, I have thought over and over. I admit that I always found myself in a blind alley when I thought of period of your marriage and ages of your children.
But I expect that there is always a better way to do things. Next time, take some time in evening from your husband’s busy schedule and start talking of old good days. How your children used to make small pranks? How you both used to go out? How your green days used to be spent. Ask him and your children to go on a vacation. Even take him to some dentist when you find it easy.
He is a spoiled boy. Take his care and make him realize sensibly that you are doing so.
Another step is to share his worries about his parents, brothers and sisters. He will feel you taking interest in ‘supposedly’ his personal affairs. While discussing his relatives’ problems discuss problems of your daughters too. When he is worried try to give solutions which not only help him to shed his worries but also save your family from worries.
Slowly, without pressing too hard, you may be able to get a life of your liking. I am hopeful especially when I see him taking care of you.
I invite the visitors to float their positive opinions in the light of their personal experiences.
